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Hey there, educational leaders, I am so excited to bring you guys this episode, this episode.
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I got to sit down with an award-winning educator, a nationally certified principal mentor and a bona fide trailblazer in the world of educational leadership.
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She has over 15 years of experience.
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She's done it from you, you know teaching, special education, school administration.
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She's done it at all these different levels and she's had a lot of innovation and heart.
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That's second to none.
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Yes, I'm talking about the famous Principal Mo today on our podcast.
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So excited, she's also racked up some serious hardware.
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She was named the 2020 Heart of Schools Award Honoree and earning the Maryland Association of Elementary Schools Connected School Leader Award for her cutting-edge leadership.
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Let's not forget, principal Mo is the mastermind behind transformative initiatives like accelerated learning, gifted and talented programming, arts integration and STEM education.
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You know, if it's making waves in education, you bet Principal Mo is at the forefront of it all.
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But this is where things get really exciting.
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Throughout our episode, we talked about a lot of her educational leadership kind of how she sees educational leadership, but she also talks about bringing in artificial intelligence into school leadership, how she can use AI to empower educators, to harness cutting edge tech to streamline operations and to make smarter decisions.
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So she gives a lot of great insights about that today in this episode.
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And let's not forget Principal Mo is an outstanding leader and she's committed to equality and inclusion.
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She believes that all students can learn and achieve and she spends her career building supportive, inspiring school communities that reflect that.
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Did I mention that she's a TikTok sensation?
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Yeah, that's right.
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She connects with educators and parents and students in a whole new level, being creative with humor.
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Insights on the social media world that's right.
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We have the one and only Principal Mo here on the Educational Leadership Podcast, so sit back.
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I hope you guys really enjoy the conversation as much as I did.
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All right, everybody, this is Principal JL Today.
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I'm really excited to have Principal Mo in the building today.
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We're actually on a restream here that we're recording, and so welcome Principal Mo to the podcast.
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Thank you for having me.
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All right, principal Mo, we're going to get things rocking here.
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Why education?
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Why step into this wonderful, beautiful, messy world of education and what?
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inspires you to become a teacher.
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Well, it wasn't so messy when I joined and you know, in yesteryear it wasn't such a bad place to be.
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But when I got my start in education I've actually been working with children as long as I've been working so it was a natural progression for me to go from a camp counselor to working at church and Sunday schools and things of that nature, to progress naturally in the teaching.
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I remember going to my college orientation and trying to figure out well actually open house and trying to figure out what well actually open house and trying to figure out what my major would be.
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Initially I wanted to possibly go into psychology, but then I saw how long I was going to have to go to school and I knew I still wanted to work with children.
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So I chose to pursue a teaching degree at Temple University and I came out duly certified with a bachelor's in special education and elementary education.
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Awesome, awesome.
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So you started as a teacher.
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How long were you a teacher?
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I was a teacher for four years in Philadelphia and then I moved to Maryland and I was a teacher for two years there.
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Awesome, your next step was going from teacher to becoming an assistant principal.
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What kind of led up to that?
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What kind of go?
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Hmm, I want to go from the classroom into what people like to call the dark side of administration and get into becoming an assistant principal.
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What kind of led into that for you?
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I think it was like an unintended step, because what initially occurred was that I pursued my master's degree when I was teaching in Philadelphia and initially I was only getting the master's degree for a pay bump right, you know to go on the scale a bit.
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And when I pursued my master's degree for a pay bump right you know to go on the scale a bit.
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And when I pursued my master's degree, initially I was only going for curriculum and instruction and special education supervisor, because at the time I was a special education teacher.
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The advisor advised me to pursue educational leadership because it was only, I think, like six more credits to get the degree and to get an additional endorsement in administration, although I had no desire to move in that direction.
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When I moved to Maryland, I actually got a pink slip in the state of Pennsylvania and from Philadelphia because they were downsizing the teaching force because it was a tumultuous time in terms of having more educators than needed to land.
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There are a lot of colleges, especially in the Philadelphia area, so it was an oversaturation of teachers, so that resulted in layoffs.
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So I ended up in Maryland my special education department chair.
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She actually encouraged me to have the district looking to my endorsements and see if I was eligible to actually become an administrator, because she felt that I would be good for the position.
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She felt that, given my knowledge with special education and elementary education, that I would be a good administrator.
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Initially I told her I thought that that wasn't a good idea and that I didn't think that that's what I really wanted to do.
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I really always wanted to be a teacher.
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I always wanted to be in the classroom.
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That was where my heart was.
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That little nudge led me to being a special ed department chair for about a good three months and then being thrown into an assistant principal position.
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It's been a unique journey, but it's the one that I would be on and it was definitely one that has been rewarding.
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Awesome, Awesome.
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So it's kind of one of those things you weren't looking for, but it found.
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You is kind of how that worked out.
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How long were you an assistant principal from that time?
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Oh yeah, were you an assistant principal from that time?
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Oh yeah, I was an assistant principal for four years at a middle high school, so I went from elementary and middle to middle, then to middle high school, which was fun.
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It was an interesting experience.
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So you got to see everything K-12, basically, from teaching the assistant principal.
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So you got a really good grasp of the different levels and kind of what you see and kind of how you lead in those different capacities.
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So that's really interesting.
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So you're an assistant principal.
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You've done it for about four years.
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What kind of go.
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I want to take that next step to becoming a building lead.
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You know what was the story behind taking that next step in your educational journey.
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Well, jl, one thing that you will notice is an ongoing trend and theme in my story and my journey to the principalship is that I didn't want to be a principal either.
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So once again, it was another nudge.
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I was an assistant principal.
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I was in my second year as an AP my original assistant superintendent.
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He approached me.
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He said I think, you know, there's going to be some principal ships coming up and I think you're really ready for it.
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At the time I was pregnant with twins oh boy and yeah.
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And so I was like no, I don't think this is a great idea.
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I'm one that's all about balance.
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And so I was like you know, I'm due in June and you want me to start a new principal shit.
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I'm going to be coming fresh off maternity leave and going into a personal position.
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I just don't think that that's a wise move for myself and my family, you know.
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So I said you know I'll continue to learn, I'll continue to grow and then, if the opportunity presents itself, then you know I'll pursue it.
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But I did go through the principal pool, like you know the performance at Tassin Center and all of that and I passed.
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But then I got into a program called Promising Principals here in Maryland.
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It was a program, a principal preparation program for assistant principals and expiring school leaders.
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My mentor at the time and my coach during the program, she said hey, I know a little school that I think you might be interested in leading.
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Do you want?
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Are you interested?
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And so, leading, do you want, are you interested?
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And so I said you know, it doesn't hurt to explore and take a look.
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It was in a different district than the one I was currently in.
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So you know, I visited the school.
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I talked to some of the people because I wanted to just really see what it's like.
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Once I did that, I took one step in the building that I am in today and I said this feels like home and it feels like where I should be.
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Then I started to see how things could look in the building, how things could improve, how we could expand, and once I started having that vision for a building that I didn't even leave yet, I knew I needed to be there and that's how I ended up as a principal.
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I've been a principal at my school now for eight years and this school is pre-K through eight, so I have been a building leader in pre-K through 12.
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So that type of insight that's really helpful in terms of knowing what's next for students.
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So knowing what's next for my middle schoolers who are going to high school and even beyond, in making sure they have, you know, the necessary preparation and understanding of what's required for them to go into high school, and then also talking to them about what college could potentially look like, I think sometimes people don't really realize that in, you know, in middle school is the real preparation for life, although it's a really squirrely time for kids.
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But you know when you go to high school and what you do in high school dictates what you do after high school.
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So you know those decisions kind of have to be made early and I don't think a lot of people realize that.
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And I always try to, like you know, drill it into my parents and my families and my students that you know this is an important time in your life and you really need to learn and take advantage of that.
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Yeah, you bet I remember I was a 7-12 principal one time and I really focused on that middle age, that 7th, 8th grade age, because I knew if I got where I needed them to go, I knew they would be successful in high school.
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If I got where I needed them to go, I knew they would be successful in the high school.
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You know, that's really awesome that you are taking the time to make sure that those kids are ready to take those next steps.
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So, because when you get in the high school, everything starts to count even more.
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So you got to get them ready, get them rocking for that.
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You know, going from teacher, going from assistant principal, Now you're a building leader.
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You've been now, you've been doing it for eight years.
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But within that time you went from leading a building, which you still do, to becoming a TikTok sensation, a Prince fluencer.
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What kind of like led you to that?
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Like, what, what?
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What was the encouragement to be like?
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You know what I'm going to hit record, I'm going to do these videos and you know what.
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What led you up to that?
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Honestly, what led up to that was when I started my TikTok account.
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I started my TikTok account with the intention of reaching my students.
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I knew that they were on TikTok, I knew it was a new application, that they were on TikTok.
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I knew it was a new application and I'm the type of person I'll try.
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I will try a new.
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I will try a new you know app or a new social media site, just to see what it's like and to see if I like it.
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So I, you know, I just hopped on the bandwagon and initially I made public service announcements or PSAs, for my students about, like, doing their work, logging on to virtual learning, you know, just all these things and infusing my level of humor into it.
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I eventually grew this like huge following that I didn't even expect to get, but it turned out that I had a community of people who were in the same boat as me.
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I was very vulnerable about what it was like being a building leader during the pandemic and the significant changes that we experienced, how it impacted education.
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You know how I dealt with humor and you know and how you know, even like you know, the mental health side of things.
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And then, after amassing somewhat of a following and just making you know content that I thought that people would want to see.
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Then there will be, like brands and different people reaching out to me and then I was like wait a minute.
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I said I thought only teachers could be, like you know, influencers.
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And so now I'm like a print influencer.
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You know I try to influence.
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You know, as a leader, you're always trying to influence people.
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But now it's a little more intentional in terms of, like you know, getting people to learn about different things, whether it's, you know, learning about hiring.
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Like you know, I did a series about how you need to Interview, tips on how to get into the assistant principal position.
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You know any aspiring leaders.
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So doing those videos and just helping other people in my TikTok community and in my social media community has been truly a rewarding experience, knowing that I'm helping someone else.
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So I have to know what has been the funniest or the most surprising reaction you got from students, other teachers, parents when you kind of got into this TikTok adventure uh, so for students, it was one day I'm in the cafeteria as I do, I'm, you know, in the cafeteria just doing one studio, and then one kid yells out principal worth, you're tiktok famous.
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You know that.
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Right, and I was like what?
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Because one thing that I sometimes don't pay attention to is that, even though I'm making these videos and like people viewing them, people have to realize people are viewing them, so people are seeing what I'm doing.
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And then even some of my parents, my parents, were telling other parents about my TikTok account and they follow me.
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If I would go live, sometimes the parents would ask me questions.
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It was just a really unique and authentic way to really connect with my community, my school community, my parents.
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They love my account apparently.
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So you know, I get a lot of positive feedback.
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They like it when I incorporate the students.
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I just started a social, a solid social media team where we make regular content for the school and they, they really embrace it.
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So it's really nice to be in that type of community where it's embraced, because I know that's not the case everywhere.
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So, but that's been, it's been a really unique experience and it's a lane that a lot of people aren't in and it's also rewarding to be kind of at the forefront of something and to be able to help other people and kind of lift as I climb.
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So what would you tell somebody like maybe a principal that's in our position, you know the utilization of social media Because you know we hear from, like our district office, like well, you got to be careful with that.
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Yeah, you know you don't want to go too far, you know what I mean.
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So what kind of advice would you give somebody that's a principal in our position that's thinking about you know what I think?
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Maybe getting into social media and utilizing that to leverage to connect with my families, with my students?
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What advice would you give them?
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So the first thing is that you have to figure out what your personal brand is going to be.
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My personal brand is I say I'm nicheless most of the time, but there are certain rules that I follow.
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The first thing is that I don't post anything that's negative.
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There is no profanity and even in the songs that I use there's no profanity.
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I don't use profanity.
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Make certain that everything that I do online is palatable for the youngest child in my building.
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That makes sense, oh yeah.
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The second rule that I have is that if I do make a video, I don't want to press post immediately and it gives me any type of pause for concern.
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I don't post it.
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So just making sure that, like you know, if every time you make a video, you always think about your audience, how is your audience going to receive this?
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How are they going to interact with it?
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How are they going to react with it?
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And even from the youngest child in your building to you know your parents and things like that, because once again, they see social media.
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You know that content does get pushed out to them and somebody will see it.
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You just have to be mindful of what it is that you're posting.
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Oh no, it's also a good thing to have a little fun, but you always just want to make sure that you're adhering to your district guidelines and things like that.
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But that's how I've built my personal brand.
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The internet is that you know most of my content.
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Even if it's humorous, it's not offensive, because a lot of times jokes can be offensive to specific groups of people.
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You know no discriminatory jokes, you know, just just those things are just making sure that things are done in good taste is really important.
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Also, being careful about, like you know, having students in your you know, in your content and in your videos.
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You know, making sure that you have parental consent.
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Like you know, I have a social media team and like they're in the videos.
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But the parents know they're well informed, they consent to it.
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The school consent forms are not your consent forms.
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Like, you need to make sure that you're talking to your families about that.
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Those are all very important things, just making sure your T's are crossed and your I's are dotted in that specific realm.
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But, you know, also showcasing that you're having fun, your day-to-day life as a principal, as a leader, your thoughts and ideas, just making sure that they align with, once again, your district guidelines and things like that, making sure that they align with, once again, your district guidelines and things like that.
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So, I think, just making sure that your personal brand, if you are going to go into this realm where you are posting as a principal, there's still a level of, there's still that morality clause.
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Whether it's spoken or unspoken, that's there and you need to abide by it, and I think that that's really important.
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And if you're showcasing yourself in your personal life, just making sure that that's copacetic and okay and, once again, palatable for your wide audience that you either have or will amass after you know, creating enough content.
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Really good advice.
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I really appreciate your insight on that, someone that has actually kind of been through the ropes and done all those things.
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You know, sometimes with social media there's some negative aspects and sometimes you may have some negative comments.
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Kind of tell us about how you handle when you have those negative things.
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I know you have a lot of positive things, but there are those negative things that do happen on social media.
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How do you, how do you handle those those type of situations?
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One thing that I have done is, you know, sometimes you just have to ignore those comments.
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A lot of times I just respond Thanks for the engagement Because at the end of the day, whether you receive a positive comment or a negative one, it counts for engagement on your posts.
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Yeah, so I just say thanks for the engagement because either way, you supported me.
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That's one of my go-to responses.
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If it's something that's disrespectful in nature, I will address it, because I think that when people talk to each other on the internet, there's no way that you would say that to someone's face, and I think that it's really important to let somebody know that you have boundaries about how people speak to you and how people interact with you.
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So I'll kind of let them know that I didn't like what they said.
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And you know, at the end of the day, you don't have to interact with my content.
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You don't have to say anything to me, you know.
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Like you know, just feel free to block me if that is, you know, if I'm bothering you that much.
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So you know, I've let people know that I don't think there's anything wrong with establishing boundaries and then sticking to those boundaries and enforcing them.
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I think it's a fine line when you start to jab back, and that's not what you should do.
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You should just let people know that these are your boundaries.
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Like you know, I tell people all the time I'm all for discourse, but not disrespect, you bet.
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And so we can have differing opinions.
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We can engage in discourse without being disrespectful to one another.
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You know, and I always say I'm happy to talk with you, I'm happy to you know, converse, but you know, if it gets to a point where it's disrespectful, then we have to discontinue the conversation.
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But you know, if it gets to a point where it's disrespectful, then we have to discontinue the conversation.
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All right, well, we're going to go ahead and pivot a little bit.
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Being a principal, being on TikTok is fun and everything.
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But let's talk about managing the stress of the job.
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You have a hard day.
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You're triage, we triage all the time.
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Right, we have the copiers breaking down.
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We have, you know, if you have an assistant principal, we have an assistant principal going.
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Hey, we have this situation.
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We need to kind of come together on this.
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You have a teacher reaching out.
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You have all these things coming at you.
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At the end of the day, what do you do to kind of manage the stress of the job?
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You know what are some.
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Do you have, like, some fun things?
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You like to do some ways to kind of decompress and kind of uh, you know, get yourself back.
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You know to yourself.
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So you're, you know, not letting the stress go home with you.
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How do you manage those things?
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uh well, there's some things that I do, but like in terms of just like managing the stress from day to day, if I reflect, like on my car ride home and stuff like that, sometimes, if it's a bad day like there's like my car ride is pretty quiet, thinking about what happened in me, thinking about what happened I acknowledge what happened, but I try not to like wallow in it.
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Also, what I ask myself is what do I need to do to make sure that I never have this type of day again?
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Like you know what was preventable, what was in my locus of control, what was I able to do to?
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What am I able to do to move forward and not have this type of day again?
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Like, do I need to re-examine systems?
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Do I need to re-examine, you know, responses to certain situations?
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That's one of the things that I do do, a few outlets that I have.
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I do know how to DJ.
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I learned how to DJ in the pandemic, so that is a creative outlet for me.
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I like to do a lot of creative things.