Overcoming Negativity: Four Proven Strategies to Defeat the Mental Madness

The world is noisier and more negative than ever. Jon and Coach Jim are not pretending otherwise. This week on a solo episode they share four proven strategies to help you fight back.

First up is what Coach calls the cancel cancel technique. When negative self-talk creeps in, you say cancel and immediately reframe the statement in a positive direction. It sounds simple but the key is detaching the negative statement from your identity. There is a big difference between saying I stink and saying I did something that did not go well.

Second is breathing, specifically box breathing. When everything around you feels out of control, your breath is the one thing you always have control over. Jon and Coach walk through the basics of the 4-4-4 method and explain why slowing your exhale is just as important as slowing your inhale.

Third is affirmations paired with visualization. Coach starts every morning in front of the mirror with affirmation cards, using the words I am to anchor the statements to his identity. Jon shares the surprising research behind why this actually works even for people who find it awkward at first, and Coach shares how his players unanimously voted to keep visualization in the program after he retired.

Finally they close with the power of prayer, gratitude, and reconnecting to your why. Jon makes the point that a lot of our prayer time is spent asking God for things and almost none of it thanking him for what we already have. That shift toward gratitude, he argues, is one of the fastest ways to break out of a negative spiral.

Four practical tools. All of them available to you today.

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