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I've heard people in the past say I got this
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great idea, but I want to discuss it with you
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until we sign an NDA or whatever. I want someone
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to steal this idea. I've had this idea for years.
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I want to want to steal it. Let me tell
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you right now, the value is not in the idea.
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The value is in bringing it to life.
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You've ever wondered what success really is and how you
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define it because different people defind it different ways. And
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if you want to take back your time and own
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your own life and potentially even business, this is the
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episode for you. It's the Limitless Leadership Lounge. We're excited
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to bring in our guests today. I'm John Garring, joined
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as always by doctor Numakareem and Coach Jim Johnson. Coach
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has brought along another guest to dive into the three
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keys to success and so much more when it comes
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to entrepreneurship. So Coach go ahead and introduced Phil Let's
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dive in.
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Yes, I'm excited to have Phil Portman. I had chance
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to talk to him before you invite him to be
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part of our podcast, and he's got some great information
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and stories to share. So let me give you a
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little background. Phil Portman as a serial entrepreneur, host of
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the Let's Talk Success podcast and a member of the
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Forbes Technology Council. He's built five startups and now helps
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others create a life of success through his three Keys
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to Success system, which he's done in a book, Clear goals,
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healthy habits, and confidence. So, without further ado, we're really
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excited to dig into more information from Phil. Phil welcome
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to the Limitless Leadership Launch.
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Yeah, thank you guys for having me excited to chat
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with you.
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To doing excellent. So I'm going to dive right in.
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I know before we hit record, you shared some great stories,
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so we'll get back into that. But with your three
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keieces to success because I did a lot with my
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teams on my players with goal settings. From your perspective,
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because you've built businesses, you also talk before we got
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on camera, your life is that about trying to balance
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family and also your work. So with that, tell us
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what if you found to help people and be a
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more effective goals setter.
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Yeah. Absolutely.
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First thing is write it down. Write down your goals.
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So the data shows us you're thirty three percent more
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likely to achieve a goal by just getting it out
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of your head and getting it down on paper. So
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first and foremost, just get it down on paper. I
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talk to people time and time again. They're like, yeah,
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I got goals, what are they? And then you see
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them look up and they're thinking their processing and it's now,
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let me see those goals. Where are they for me?
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I have goals written, I have whiteboards I have where
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I work out at home. I have my workout goals,
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and then I have right next to it the other
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goals and my goals. I put them in different buckets.
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So I have my family goals, I have my financial goals,
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I have my artistic goals. I have my spiritual goals.
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I break them up into buckets because I want to
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be well balanced. I don't want to be somebody who's
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just focused on one thing. I'm grabbing this life by
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the horns and I want to run with it. I
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want all of it, So I'm not limiting myself to
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one specific goal in one specific category. I want to
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be a balanced individual. So first thing, write down your goals.
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The second thing is share it with somebody. If you
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write down your goals and you share it with somebody,
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you're now seventy six percent more likely to achieve that goal.
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But don't just pick anybody, right, Pick somebody who's going
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to be a good accountability partner with you. Somebody's gonna
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follow you, follow up with you. And those are typically
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the type of people that we want to avoid when
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setting a goal because you know they're going to follow
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up with you on it. But that's the type of
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person you want. You want someone that's going to hold
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you accountable of those goals. All right, I got one
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more so written goal. We've shared with someone who's going
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to hold this accountable. And the last thing is we
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can visualize ourself achieving the goal, or we can visualize
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the steps that it's going to take to achieve that goal.
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We've broken them down, we've determined the path and maybe
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this isn't a goal we're going to achieve tomorrow. Maybe
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it's one we're going to achieve it a year or
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five years, but we've laid out the paths and we
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can visualize ourselves achieving it, we are now one hundred
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and forty percent more likely to achieve that goal. So
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the three things around it our first write it down, second,
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share it with someone, and then visualize your path to
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achieving that goal, and you are one hundred and forty
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percent more likely to achieve it. I get it.
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Just say show one day. I'm a big quote guy,
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and I used to give my players, so you hit
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a chord really strong, because I always said, with goals,
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when you think it inc.
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It absolutely yeah. And I was somebody who years ago
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would just keep them inside my head. And then I
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talk about that whiteboard where I write down goals. I
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started a business. I wrote down a goal. I'd be
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nice to hit the this number. I ended up going
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back to that date and looking up and go, man,
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I number, I'll stretch it a little bit. This time,
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let's stretch your goal. And time again I kept hitting it. Anyways,
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I was telling my wife about this. My wife is
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a fiction author, and she okay, PI, yeah it works
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for you in business, but yeah, I'm gonna go ahead
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and entertain it. And so she went and had wrote
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down her goal or this year, I want to hit
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the top five in my category in sales, and day
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one of the new year, she hit that goal. And
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she can't explain why she didn't do any different than
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marketing been a fluke at the other day. She's now
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a firm believer in written goals. It changes things. It
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makes it real when you actually write them down and
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your brain just starts working towards what it can do
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to achieve that goal. So write down your goals.
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Yep, was muted.
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I hear you because I wrote my goal that I
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want to start a nonprofit when I was twenty five
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years old after working with unseef and then suddenly I
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lost track of time and I pursued my PhD and
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then I started teaching, and then I found my diary
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again and it reminded me like, oh, I did want
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it to start my nonprofit.
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And what happened.
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My father passed away and that was the I think
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that was the trigger. What am I doing?
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Everybody's time is short and we need.
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To follow what we promised ourself.
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And that is when I wrote that goal.
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And I had my accountability partners who really pushed like
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what about your organization that dream? I had one or
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two friends, two close friends who reminded me of my dreams,
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and that is when I started. I just went with it,
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contacted Jim Johnson, and then everything started rolling. But one
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I realized that you cannot sit down with your goal.
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You have to put it into action.
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And once you start to roll, all the resources and
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everything comes up. So it is interesting like how all
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the doors starts to open when you are also visualizing
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so all the technique that you are mentioning.
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So I could see that myself, like, oh, I was.
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Doing that, and now I have too many goals, so
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I have to narrow it down, like too many goals,
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so I have to focus now. So my question is,
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you are a serial entrepreneur and you have so many
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interesting businesses that you pursued. Is there any business that
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is close to your heart that has Oh, this is
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the business that it find me that gives me joy
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something like that, because each business has its own area
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of joy.
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Absolutely.
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So Ever, since I was young, I love the tech
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side of things, So that is what I'm naturally passionate about.
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The problem with that is it could be an addiction
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for me. I could get so obsessed with technology that
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I could spend all day just invested in it, and
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so I think it's important to have balance, and specifically
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balance with nature. So one of the things that I
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really enjoy is my fifty four acre commercial horse farm.
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We have this horse farm, and if you go to
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it right now, it looks like a park. I've got
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this private pond up front that I stock with fish
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and I got micro organisms. I'm like a scientist with
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the pH levels and the water. I've got bubblers in
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it and fountains and stuff. At the back, I have
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a cabin with a dock that goes out to a lake.
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I've got trails throughout the property. I obsess over it.
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But there's something incredibly therapeutic about building things in the
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physical world and looking back and saying I made that
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and made that. There's something about getting out there and
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putting posts in the ground and shoveling gravel, and it's
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just it does something great for the soul. And if
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you read throughout history, some of the most successful people
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will agree with that. George Washington did not want to
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become king because all you wanted to do is get
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back to his farm. I get it. I completely get it.
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There's this balance that we humans have with nature, and
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if you can get out and do something physical, then
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it will provide that balance that you're looking for in
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your life.
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So for me, an.
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Organic experience, and I think it's an organic experience. We
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are all rooted to some organic experience. We can have
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take job, we can start a bank or something like that.
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But the feeling you feel being in.
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The nature, and I got the feeling that you will
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talk about.
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Your farm when I ask you this question. I ride
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it there. I could imagine myself loving this.
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Farm absolutely no. I love everything about it, including the horses,
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the animals that we have on arm or incredible. Last
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year we actually started a nonprofit for special needs children
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all the Michigan Horse Therapy that runs on the farm
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as well. And it's incredible and the science backs it.
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If you look at all of the data, the amount
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of time that a senys to get out do something outdoors.
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There's a churchhill I think used to go out and
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chop trees or something like that. You would just get
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out and chop a tree just to be out in
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the woods. But getting out there in nature and doing
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something physical is something that we humans were meant to do.
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Yeah, I know, but really interesting for me because I'm
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a big workout person, and so was my wife. But
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my wife would go outside every day for a walk,
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and I didn't do much like I played tennis, so
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I play outside from that.
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But it's interesting.
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During COVID, I started to do a walk outside because
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I want to just get outside more. And it's unbelievable.
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It's like something is ingrained in me. Now I just
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have a better day when I do a walk outside.
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You're so right, you hit me hard. Sorry about that, John,
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I had to share a little bit, but go ahead. Sure.
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We talked about success, and this is where I think
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the conversation is going to be so helpful for people,
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because how do you define success? People will, well, it's
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not hard to define success. I want to hit this
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certain level. I wrote down my goals, like Phil told me, right,
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this is how I define success. But success define the
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traditional way or the way we're brought up to believe
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it is might end up having an opposite effect. You
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told us a story about that before our recording. Tell
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us a bit about what success used to mean to
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you and what success means to you now.
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And part of the reason I wrote the book is
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if you look online, you go on social media, you're
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told that success looks this way. It's somebody renting chares
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inside of a private plane to take a photo session.
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Somebody taking a picture in front of a Lamborghini that
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they do not own. Right, that's success. Buying stuff that
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you don't want or don't need and giving away your
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life and time that you have towards buying junk is