Episodes

Sept. 9, 2025

40. Isolation Isn’t Regulation for Student Behavior

When a student is melting down, many educators default to the same response: “Take it to the hallway.” But does this actually help? In this episode of The Language of Behavior , Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper unpack why isola...
Sept. 2, 2025

39. Reintegration with the Creation of a Mental Health Team

When a student returns to school after time in a mental health facility, the transition can feel like walking a tightrope for the child, their family, and the educators who want to help. In this episode of The Language of Beh...
Aug. 26, 2025

38. Why Student Behaviors Spike After the First Few Weeks of School

In this episode of The Language of Behavior , co-hosts Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper tackle a timely listener question: “Now that we’ve been in school for a few weeks, I’m starting to see new behaviors. What may be the cause...
Aug. 19, 2025

Brag Tags, Herd Mentality, and the Power of Connection with Kim Gameroz

What does it really take to create a school community where both teachers and students thrive? In this energizing episode of The Language of Behavior , co-hosts Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper sit down with educator, author, a...
Aug. 12, 2025

37. Why Punishment Alone Fails: Teaching Skills for Lasting Behavior Change

Fresh off inspiring events in Ohio and Colorado, co-hosts Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper tackle one of the biggest misconceptions in education: the belief that punishment alone changes behavior. Spoiler—it doesn’t. This episo...
Aug. 7, 2025

36. Stronger Together: Building Parent-Teacher Partnerships for Neurodivergent Students

Fresh off the VIBE EDU conference in California, Josh and Charle reunite to answer a powerful audience question: Should parents of neurodivergent students reach out to teachers at the start of the school year—and how can they...
July 29, 2025

35. Push in Power: Effective Behavior Solutions from the 2025 MTSS Conference

In this special episode of The Language of Behavior , hosts Josh and Charlie reunite after an inspiring trip to the 2025 MTSS conference in California. They share personal reflections on connecting with passionate educators a...
July 22, 2025

Conversations That Empower Confidence in Every Student

What if the most powerful academic tool isn’t a textbook—but a relationship? In this episode, Charle and Joshua respond to Velma Knowles’ heartfelt question: “How do you empower students to believe that they can achieve their...
July 15, 2025

33. The role of Suspensions While Keeping Accountability in Sight

When students misbehave, emotions run high—for teachers, administrators, and the students themselves. In this episode, Charle and Joshua dive into the complex, often misunderstood world of school suspensions. What role do In-...
July 8, 2025

32. Rewriting the Impact of Behavior on Student Learning

Not all behavior supports are created equal—and some do more harm than good. In this episode, Charle and Joshua dive into the listener question: “What behavior supports most influence student learning?” Using John Hattie’s re...
July 1, 2025

31. Pushing Forward Without Pushing Back

In this episode, Charle and Joshua tackle a timely question from an administrator planning for the year ahead: How do we make real progress when the pressure from the state, district, or politics seems to get in the way? With...
June 24, 2025

30. What Are They Really Telling You?

Sometimes the biggest cries for help are the quietest ones. In this episode, Charle and Joshua respond to a listener’s powerful question: What subtle signs indicate that a child or adult is struggling emotionally or behaviora...
June 17, 2025

29. Strategies to Enhance Staff Mental Health and Campus Culture

What happens when school staff are emotionally exhausted, unsupported, and silently burning out? In this episode, Charle and Joshua answer a powerful listener question: How does school culture contribute to behavioral issues ...
June 11, 2025

28. Helping Students Build Better Peer Connections

When students clash, shut each other out, or stir up conflict, it can ripple through your classroom culture. In this episode, Charle and Joshua unpack the listener question, “What do we do when students display negative inter...
June 3, 2025

27. Noticing the Unnoticed Struggles

Not every cry for help is loud. In this episode, Charle and Joshua respond to a listener’s important question: What subtle signs indicate that a child or adult is struggling emotionally or behaviorally? Together, they explore...
May 28, 2025

26. When Students Shut Down and You Don’t Know Why

What do you do when a student shuts down—refusing to work, withdrawing completely, or staring through you like you’re not even there? In this episode, Charle and Joshua respond to a powerful question from listener Isaya Woyto...
May 21, 2025

25. How do we Manage Student Manipulation while maintaining Support?

In this episode, Charle and Joshua tackle a tough and familiar listener question from Lindsay Ward: "When students manipulate situations and other teachers for certain things, what strategies do you have to use to still feel ...
May 13, 2025

24. Why do Power Struggles Start and How to Stop Them

Ever find yourself in a standoff with a student and wonder, How did we get here? In this eye-opening episode, Charle and Joshua unpack one of the most common and misunderstood classroom challenges: power struggles. From subtl...
May 6, 2025

23. Making Discipline Meaningful Through Restoration

Are In and Out of school suspensions really changing student behavior? In this episode, Charle and Joshua answer a listener's question about how restorative practices can be used in both schools and workplaces to address misb...
April 30, 2025

Leading with Hope When the Weight Feels Heavy with Dr. Brandi Kelly

In this deeply personal and inspiring episode, Dr. Brandi Kelly joins Charle and Joshua to discuss her new book Lead with Hope and the powerful message behind it. Brandi shares how losing her brother at a young age shaped her...
April 22, 2025

22. Balancing Trust and Accountability with Hard-to-Reach Students

How do you hold a student accountable without damaging the fragile relationship you've worked so hard to build? In this episode, Charle and Joshua tackle a powerful listener question about navigating behavior challenges with ...
April 15, 2025

Rethinking ISS and SEL Integration for Real Behavior Change

What if In-School Suspension wasn’t just about separation, but transformation? In this episode, Charle and Joshua respond to a powerful question from educator Leah Hobbs: How can we integrate social emotional learning (SEL) i...
April 8, 2025

Designing Calm in the Chaos

In this reflective episode, Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper revisit some of the most impactful insights from the Thriving Educator LIVE series—focusing on how our physical environment plays a crucial role in shaping student be...
April 1, 2025

The Influence of Presence in Student Communication

Ever notice how a simple shift in tone or a slight change in proximity can completely alter a student's response? In this episode, Charle and Joshua dive into the unseen yet powerful impact of presence on student behavior. Th...