Episode 82 | Choosing Love: Why My Word for 2026 Is Love
In this episode of the Lead with H.O.P.E. podcast, host Dr. Brandi Kelly explores the profound impact of love and hope in leadership.
As Valentine’s Day approaches, Brandi shares personal reflections and leadership insights, drawing powerful lessons from children’s movies to illustrate that love is not merely a romantic idea.. it is a strategic, intentional force that builds connection, fuels growth, and strengthens courage.
Brandi also unpacks the Science of Hope, highlighting its cognitive components, goals, pathways, and agency, and explains how love fuels each one. When leaders lead with love, they create environments where people feel safe, valued, and empowered to pursue meaningful goals.
This episode is especially for female leaders who are tired of carrying leadership alone. You’ll be reminded that community matters, connection is essential, and leadership becomes truly transformational when love and hope work together.
The word guiding Brandi’s leadership for 2026 is love
Children’s movies teach powerful lessons about leadership and connection
Hope is a cognitive process built on goals, pathways, and agency
Love fuels all three components of hope
Female leaders often carry heavy burdens alone—community is essential
The Spark HOPE Community exists to support and empower female leaders
Leadership becomes transformational when love and hope work together
Chapters
00:00 – The Power of Love in Leadership
06:01 – Hope as a Cognitive Process: Goals, Pathways, and Agency
07:55 – Building Community and Connection Through Love
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A special thank you to Craig Williams and Conversari for supporting this episode! Learn more about their work at https://www.conversaripress.com
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Keywords
leadership, love, hope, community, connection, female leaders, personal growth, storytelling, intentionality, empowerment
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Hello friends, and welcome back
to the Lead with Hope podcast.
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I'm your host, Brandy Kelly, and
today's episode feels especially
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close to my heart.
Before we dive in, a quick thank
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you to Craig Williams, founder
of Commissary, our legacy
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partner.
If you have ever felt like your
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story, your message, or your
brand needs clarity, Commissary
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exists to help you with exactly
that.
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They work with people who want
their voice to reflect their
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values and their purpose.
You can find the link in today's
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show notes and on the Spark Hope
website.
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Thanks to Commissary for their
belief, their belief in the
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power of story to create
connection, clarity, and hope.
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This episode releases.
We're right on the edge of
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Valentine's Day and this is a
holiday that reminds us that
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love, connection, and people
matter most.
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Each year I choose one word to
guide my life, my leadership, my
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relationships, and the way that
I show up in the world.
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And for 2026, the word that I
chose is love.
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I'm not talking about the
fluffy, romantic kind of love.
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I'm talking about the
intentional, daily, sometimes
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messy kind of love.
That kind that shows up when
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things get hard, the kind that
listens before it speaks, and
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the kind that leads even when it
would be easier not to.
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My husband and I have decided to
do the Love Dare for 2026 since
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this is the word that we chose
and we have been grounding our
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days in scripture and in
devotion with that book, and it
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is helping us keep our focus on
love.
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If you've been around me any
amount of time, you know how
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deeply I love my grandsons.
I love being a Nana.
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Those boys are pure joy to me.
And some of my favorite moments
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these days are the simple ones,
the moments when we sit on the
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couch and we have snacks
everywhere and we are watching
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the same movie on repeat.
Here's the thing.
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Those children's movies have a
funny way of teaching us some
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pretty profound lessons about
life and about leadership.
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Let's take Cars, for example.
Lightning McQueen.
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He starts out and he is obsessed
with winning.
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He's fast cut chow.
He's talented, but he's also
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alone.
It isn't until he slows down and
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connects with other people in
Radiator Springs.
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He builds relationships with
some of the other cars, like
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Sally and Mater.
He learns to care.
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That is when he becomes the
leader that he was truly meant
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to be.
Another movie that I've been
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watching a lot, Frozen One and
Frozen 2.
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It reminds me what love really
is.
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Love is not that romantic act at
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Love really is about sacrifice.
It's choosing someone else's
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well-being over your own.
It's choosing love over fear.
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And then the most recent movie
that one of my grandsons
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introduced me to is Planes.
And in planes, Dusty learns that
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believing in himself is fueled
by encouragement, belonging, and
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people who see his potential
before he does.
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When I watch these movies with
my boys, I am reminded that love
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is the foundation for growth.
It is the foundation for
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courage, and it is the
foundation for hope.
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Let's take a moment to thank
Craig Williams.
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He is the founder of Commissary,
a legacy sponsor of the Lead
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With Hope podcast, and a partner
that truly aligns with what we
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believe here.
Around here, we talk a lot about
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hope and how hope grows when
people feel seen, heard, and
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confident in their own voice.
Commissary helps make that
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possible by guiding authors,
leaders, and change makers and
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telling their story with
clarity, courage, and purpose.
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Their work goes far beyond
publishing.
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It's about helping people slow
down, get grounded, and step
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fully into who they are and what
they're called to share.
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Whether it's a book, a message,
or a brand, Commissary brings
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intention, strategy, and heart
to every part of this process.
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If you know you have something
meaningful to say, but you want
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to share it in a way that fills
authentic and aligned, this is a
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team worth paying attention to.
You can learn more about
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Commissary by checking the link
in the show notes or visiting
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them through the Spark Hope
website.
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We're deeply grateful for this
partnership and for the belief
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in the power of story to create
connection, clarity, and hope.
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Now, I was talking about the
movies that we've been watching
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on repeat these days, Cars and
Frozen and Planes, and thinking
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about those movies.
This connects perfectly with the
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work of Doctor Rick Schneider
and the science of hope.
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Yes, hope has a science to it.
Snyder teaches us that hope
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isn't just a feeling, it's
actually a cognitive process, a
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thinking process, and it's built
on three components.
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The first component is goals,
something meaningful to move
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towards.
The second is pathways,
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believing that you can find ways
forward.
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Multiple pathways move towards
your goals.
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And the third is agency, a
belief that you matter and you
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can act and produce the
outcomes, achieve your goals.
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And here's what we don't
frequently say out loud,
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especially not in leadership.
Love fuels all three goals,
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pathways and agency.
When people feel loved and
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valued, they set braver goals.
When leaders create environments
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of care and connection, people
people see pathways instead of
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walls.
And when someone feels like they
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belong, their sense of agency
multiplies.
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That's why love isn't soft
leadership, it's strong
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leadership.
Love creates safety, safety
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creates trust, and trust creates
hope.
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As female leaders, we often
carry so very much.
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We're leading our families,
we're leading our teams.
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We support other people,
sometimes at the expense of
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ourselves and choosing love of
in life and in leadership means
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that you're leading with
compassion and healthy
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boundaries.
You're holding high
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expectations, and you're doing
it with humanity.
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You're creating spaces where
people feel seen, supported, and
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capable.
And let me say this clearly, you
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are not meant to do this alone.
None of us are.
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And that's exactly why the Spark
Hope community exists.
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It's a supportive, empowering
community of female leaders.
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You are tired of carrying it all
alone, and you're ready to lead
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with hope and purpose, and yes,
with love.
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Inside this community you will
find encouragement and
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connection, practical leadership
tools rooted in the science of
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hope, a space where you can
pause, exhale, grow, and lead
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authentically.
If your heart is craving
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community, if you're ready to
choose love as a leadership
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strategy, and if you believe
hope is something we build
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together, I want to invite you
to join us.
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You'll find the link to join in
the show notes.
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As Valentine's Day approaches,
my hope for you is this.
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Choose love and how you lead.
Choose love and how you speak to
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yourself and choose love and how
you show up for others.
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Because when love and hope work
together, leadership becomes
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transformational.
Until next time, friends, keep
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leading, keep hoping, and always
lead with hope.