Episodes

How do you hold a student accountable without damaging the fragile relationship you've worked so hard to build? In this episode, Charle and Joshua tackle a powerful listener question about navigating behavior challenges with students who struggle to trust adults. They explore practical strategies for addressing misconduct—especially when evidence is unclear or actions can’t be ignored—while preserving connection and rapport. From assigning “trusted adults” to implementing restorative practices a...

What if In-School Suspension wasn’t just about separation, but transformation? In this episode, Charle and Joshua respond to a powerful question from educator Leah Hobbs: How can we integrate social emotional learning (SEL) into ISS when students are being disciplined for things like dress code violations or excessive tardies? They dive into the purpose of ISS, how to reimagine it as a proactive learning space, and explore how SEL can become a meaningful tool—not just a checkbox. From creating a...

In this reflective episode, Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper revisit some of the most impactful insights from the Thriving Educator LIVE series—focusing on how our physical environment plays a crucial role in shaping student behavior. Responding to a powerful listener question, they explore real-world examples of sensory tools, calming decorations, and intentional classroom design choices that help reduce anxiety and create psychological safety. From flexible seating to textures, colors, and visua...

Ever notice how a simple shift in tone or a slight change in proximity can completely alter a student's response? In this episode, Charle and Joshua dive into the unseen yet powerful impact of presence on student behavior. They uncover how factors like body language, classroom layout, and even the pace of speech shape student engagement and trust. Every move we make as educators sends a message so how can we ensure it’s the right one? Tune in for eye-opening insights and game-changing strategies...

What happens when a student’s behavior seems completely unpredictable? A listener asks how to determine triggers for a student who seems to have none, and in this episode, Charle and Joshua dive deep into the hidden factors behind student outbursts. They share real-life stories, common but often overlooked triggers, and environmental influences that may be fueling unexpected behaviors. Plus, they introduce strategies like The Relationship Inventory to help educators build stronger connections, ...

Teachers are facing more challenges than ever when it comes to student behavior, engagement, and emotional well-being. In this powerful episode, special guests Kasey Schultz and Brian Miller join Charle and Joshua to break down what’s really happening in classrooms today. From student behavior interventions to the six key pieces of engagement, they explore why traditional methods are falling short—and what actually works. They take a deep dive into why social-emotional learning (SEL) isn’t crea...

Anxiety is one of the most common challenges students and educators face, yet it’s often misunderstood or overlooked. In this episode, Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper tackle the big question: How can anxiety be treated, and how can we support those who struggle with it effectively? From building self-awareness to using evidence-based treatments like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART), mindfulness, and medication, they break down practical approaches that can ...

At 19, Kevin Hines made the devastating decision to jump off the Golden Gate Bridge. He survived. Today, he is one of the world’s leading voices in mental health and suicide prevention, using his second chance at life to bring hope to others. In this powerful and deeply moving episode, Kevin shares his personal journey, the warning signs of depression and suicidal ideation that often go unnoticed in children, and why early intervention matters. We dive into the conversations educators and paren...

Stress is a normal part of life, but when does it cross the line into an anxiety disorder? In this episode, Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper break down the key differences between everyday stress and clinical anxiety, especially in the classroom setting. They explore how predictability, classroom norms, and intentional check-ins can help students feel more secure and supported. Plus, they share practical strategies to reduce student stress and anxiety while fostering a healthier learning environme...

Students with ADHD often find themselves at odds with the traditional school model by struggling to sit still, focus, or meet rigid expectations that don’t align with how their brains are wired. So what can educators do to truly support them? In this episode, Charle and Josh dive into the realities of ADHD in schools, backed by research and real-world experiences. They unpack why conventional discipline and classroom structures fail ADHD learners, explore how their brains process information di...

February is here, and if you’re feeling the weight of student behaviors reaching their peak, you’re not alone. Research shows that February is the highest month for student referrals, making it one of the most stressful times for educators. But here’s the reality—we can’t effectively manage student behavior if we’re not in the right emotional state ourselves. In this episode, Charle and Josh dive into the importance of regulating our own emotions first, so we can approach student discipline with...

In this special episode, Joshua Stamper reads the introduction to The Language of Behavior: A Framework to Elevate Student Success. Dive into the heart of the book as Joshua explores key sections like Are We Failing?, Regaining Trust in the System, and Why Traditional Approaches to Misbehavior Aren't Working. Discover how this new approach redefines student behavior support, fosters stronger connections, and equips educators with practical strategies to elevate success in every classroom. Ready ...

How can educators support non-English speaking students and families who hold different cultural beliefs around mental health? In this thought-provoking episode, Charle and Joshua dive into the complexities of navigating cultural differences while fostering understanding and trust. They discuss common roadblocks, share real-life examples of meaningful conversations, and offer actionable strategies to educate parents on the benefits of mental health practices. Join us as we explore how to build b...

What happens when a student places all their trust in you and no one else? In this episode, Charle and Joshua unpack the delicate dance of earning trust while knowing when to pass the baton. With stories, insights, and actionable advice, they explore how to identify when it’s time to involve counselors, social workers, or other professionals to ensure every student gets the holistic support they need. Tune in for a thoughtful discussion on balancing connection, boundaries, and collaboration to t...

What if gratitude could be the game-changer for mental health in schools? Join Charle and Joshua as they sit down with Lainie Rowell, author of Evolving Gratitude, for a powerful conversation on the science and magic of gratitude. Discover how this simple yet bold practice can rewire the brain, boost emotional resilience, and transform the classroom environment. Lainie shares her personal journey, research insights, and practical strategies for educators and students to harness gratitude as a to...

Ever feel like the world is spinning out of control, and all eyes are on you? In this episode, Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper explore the art of keeping your cool when chaos erupts. Tackling the question "How do I stay calm when I feel chaotic in front of others?" they introduce the Ladder of Conflict—a powerful tool for understanding and managing emotional escalation. But staying calm isn’t just about what happens in the moment; it’s about creating a support system that has your back when the p...

Tensions rise, emotions boil over, and suddenly, you're faced with a student on the brink of aggression. What do you do? In this episode, Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper tackle one of the most challenging and pressing questions educators face: How can I deescalate when a student seems ready to lash out? Drawing from their wealth of experience, they break down effective, trauma-informed deescalation strategies designed to create safety, diffuse conflict, and restore calm without escalating the sit...

Ever faced a student who simply shuts down, refusing to engage or even lift a pencil? In this week's episode, Charle and Joshua dive into the often-overlooked challenges of avoidant students—the ones who declare, "I'm just here because I have to be." Through powerful storytelling and expert insights, they peel back the layers of disengagement, exploring what might lie beneath the resistance. With 17 creative strategies in hand, they offer fresh perspectives and actionable tools for fostering con...

In this critical episode of The Language of Behavior, Charle and Josh tackle a sensitive yet vital topic: "How to Assess Our Student's Level of Risk Effectively?" Together, they explore the warning signs—both verbal and non-verbal—that educators need to recognize when assessing student mental health and the potential risk of suicide. From understanding levels of danger to identifying subtle behavioral cues, this episode equips listeners with the tools to navigate these challenging situations wi...

In this special episode of The Language of Behavior, we welcome our very first guest, the extraordinary Todd Nesloney! As an award-winning author, speaker, and renowned school leader, Todd brings a wealth of wisdom and heart to the conversation. Todd takes us on a journey through his evolution as an educator—from implementing practical steps to reduce student misbehavior as a teacher to discovering powerful ways to transform school culture as a principal. Through candid stories and hard-earned ...

In this episode of The Language of Behavior, hosts Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper explore the critical topic of student mental health and the importance of timely referrals to school counselors. Join them as they discuss how to identify students who may be in need, using their insightful framework that classifies concerns into three levels of risk: Curiosity, Concern, and Crisis. Listeners will gain practical strategies for recognizing the signs that a student may be struggling, including speci...

How can teachers identify when a student is struggling with their mental health? In this compelling episode of The Language of Behavior, Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper take on the big question: "Should teachers assess students' mental health?" Together, they share a practical and empathetic approach to spotting the signs that something might be wrong. By focusing on three key areas—feelings, behaviors, and appearances—educators can gain a better understanding of their students’ needs without ove...

In this important episode of The Language of Behavior, Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper dive into a powerful listener question: "How can teachers be proactive to prevent behaviors from escalating?" Charle and Joshua share actionable strategies to help educators take a proactive approach to behavior management, including: Using check-ins and check-outs to foster trust and understand student emotions. Building meaningful relationships with hard-to-reach students. Incorporating fun, low-pressure a...

In this week's episode of The Language of Behavior, Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper tackle a listener's question: "How do we set up a classroom to reduce behaviors?" Charle and Joshua explore practical strategies to create a safe and calming environment that benefits students, parents, and teachers alike. From adjusting lighting and furniture to choosing colors, sounds, and even scents, they dive into how each element can impact student emotions and behavior. With real-life stories, they illustra...