May 22, 2023

Lead Like a Teacher with Miriam Plotinsky

Lead Like a Teacher with Miriam Plotinsky

Episode 160 of the Leader of Learning Podcast features an interview with Miriam Plotinsky (@MirPloMCPS), a national board certified teacher, instructional specialist with Montgomery County Public Schools in Maryland, and the author of the book, “Lead...

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Episode 160 of the Leader of Learning Podcast features an interview with Miriam Plotinsky (@MirPloMCPS), a national board certified teacher, instructional specialist with Montgomery County Public Schools in Maryland, and the author of the book, “Lead Like a Teacher.” In the episode, Miriam discusses nine key aspects of leadership, how to stop teachers and their leaders from becoming adversaries, and how school leaders can lead more effectively by actively listening to teachers and welcoming their expertise.

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So teachers want leaders who support them
and value them and empower them. And

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leaders set out to value and support
and empower their teachers. So why can't

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that always happen? In this episode, I'm talking to Miriam Platynsky, author

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of Lead Like a Teacher, Stick
Around. Welcome to the Leader of Learning

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podcast. I'm your host, doctor
Dan Crinis, and this is where I

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help educators grow their impact as instructional
leaders because my research and leadership experiences have

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led me to understand that someone like
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on your organization. I chat with inspiring

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guests who are truly making an impact
as instructional leaders. Whether this is your

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Now let's get started, all right, Leader of Learning, Welcome to

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onto this episode. When Miriam Platynsky reached

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out to me for an interview opportunity, I definitely said yes pretty quickly because

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her book is called Lead Like a
Teacher, and I feel like that speaks

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to me and my mission here at
Leader of Learning very much, and I

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was really excited to talk to her, and I loved her sharing some of

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her ideas about how leaders school leaders
can really bring their staffs and their organizations

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together and truly value and empower the
voices of all stakeholders, but especially those

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teachers and staff members who have a
lot to offer and bring a lot to

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the table. I can't wait for
you to listen. Coming up after these

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messages is my interview with Miriam Platynsky. All right, welcome back, Leader

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of Learning. I'm excited to bring
on Miriam Platynsky, who is an instructional

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specialist with Montgomery County Public Schools in
Maryland, where she has taught and led

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for more than twenty years. She
is a National Board Certified teacher and certified

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administrator, and the author of a
few different books. Here we have writing

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their future selves, Teach More,
Hoverless, and one that I think is

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most recent and one that I'm looking
forward to talking to her about lead like

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a teacher. So Miriam, welcome
to the show. And if there's anything

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that you can offer the listeners in
the way of more about who you are

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and where you are and what you
do, please go for it. Hi,

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thanks for having me. I appreciate
it. Yeah, so everything you

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said it's correct. I have I've
been working in many different sort of job

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roles and positions and lenses in a
school dress in a school district for a

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while. And the thing about where
where I sit is that I sit from

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sort of in a strange middle ground
between teaching and leading. So I've been

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in classrooms, I've been on administration
teams, and where I wound up is

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in more of a coaching role where
I work with leaders and teachers to try

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to help them figure out anything from
instructional ideas to professional development to school improvement

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within curriculum instruction. So it's wearing
a lot of hats on a different basis.

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And then what I call my side
hustle as the writing thing with the

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books and the articles. That's great. I mean, I've definitely been in

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that middle level and not quite admin, but in leadership roles for a while

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myself. I've I've dabbled in administration, but at this point I'm a coach

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as well, and I don't know
that I do too much coaching of administrators,

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but I know certainly how you feel
about how important it is, and

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I do. I like the title
and I like the concept of this book,

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so lead like a teacher, and
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it a little bit before we started
recording here a few minutes ago, and

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it says in the description here,
it says, far too often teachers and

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administrators are adversaries within a school or
a district and display a mutual distrust and

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disrespect for others perspectives. And I
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start, is if you could,
of course talk about the book, but

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let's start with that distrust that happens
between teachers and administrators. You know,

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my audience is filled with both teachers
and administrators. But I do like and

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it's it's right above me here if
you're watching on video, you know I

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do like saying that I enjoy helping
educators grow their impact as instructional leaders.

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And so's it'll be an interesting discussion
here because of the way my audience is

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split between teachers and administrators. But
what would you say about that distrust?

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So what I call it, and
I started using this phrase when I was

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writing this book, I call it
the empathy gap. And essentially, we're

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all in schools doing jobs that look
like one thing on the surface, but

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are really something else. So if
I'm a teacher looking an administrator, I

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assume they're doing a bunch of things, or maybe not doing a bunch of

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things. The administrator might be making
the same assumptions about teachers. The issue

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is that in this is you know, this is the way I see it.

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The longer a time and administrators out
of the classroom, the less they

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really have that same empathy for what
it's like to be a classroom teacher.

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Especially, things have really been escalating
and changing a lot more quickly in the

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past three to five years for teachers. And the person who wrote one of

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the four words this book, Damon
Montelione, he taught a class when he

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was a principal. He did this
in twenty nineteen high school principle and one

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thing he writes about is how he
walked into a classroom everything was different,

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and not just the technology, but
the way the kids were interacting. And

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now pandemic that's really what we're calling
it. I don't know if for a

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post pandemic or not, but you
know, kids are different, and we

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keep talking about that and how we
access learning and how we access the engagement.

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So that's the teaching side of it, and then on the leading side

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of it, people also have misconceptions. I remember one of the most hurtful

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things that someone once said to me
was when I went into more of a

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leadership role. They said, we've
lost you to an office. And I

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remember thinking, that's not what I'm
doing at all, Like I'm that's not

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my job and that's not how I
work. But that's the perception. So

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we have this thing where we wind
up being set up in a very adversarial

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way when there's really just a lack
of understanding and empathy about what the other

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person might be doing. In more
functional school spaces, that doesn't happen as

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much, but a lot of the
time it becomes a default. Like I

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said, I have dabbled in a
couple of administrative roles. Neither of them

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lasted very long. And you know, I've shared the story with the listeners

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of You Know my Audi in the
podcast before, but I'll tell you so

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much of that personally for me was
because I really enjoy being that instructional leader

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that unfortunately I don't think school based, you know, school level administrators really

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get to do at this point as
often as they would like. And it's

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interesting, I don't know about you. Well, I read your bio.

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It says you've been teaching twenty plus
years. I'm in year seventeen right now.

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And I really think that around the
time that I started teaching was when

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people started hoping anyway or looking to
school leaders to be more instructional leaders.

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I don't know about you. I
don't want to put words in your mouth,

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but I feel like we're starting to
go in the other direction again,

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where at least in my experience,
and this is very quickly, you know,

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not quickly, but when we were
as we were returning to school I

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won't say coming out of the pen
demic like you were saying, but returning

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to schools full time in person,
there was a lot of behaviors that we

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needed to deal with. So in
my experience as a school administrator in that

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era, it was very difficult to
get into classrooms to be an instructional leader,

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to really be present and visible.
I don't want to say I was

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holding up in my office. It
was actually the opposite. I felt like

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I was running around the school like
crazy all day long. All of this

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to say, how what are you
seeing? And if you're seeing the same

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thing where school administrators are having a
hard time carrying that torch of being an

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instructional leader, is that part of
what you're suggesting when you say, lead

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like a teacher. So, first
of all, guests with the behaviors,

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we don't really know why yet.
I feel like we're assigning a lot of

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faulty causation or correlation. We're trying
to figure out why kids are acting out

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so much more than they used to, and we all theories about why that

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might be, but we don't know
for sure, and we probably won't know

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for another twenty years or so.
We've gathered more data and when we had

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more perspective with what's happened for administrators, you know, and this is this

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is really, as you say,
what teachers misunderstand. Administrators want to go

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into classrooms, they want to observe
instruction, they want to help with instruction.

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This is what you know ideally what
to do either day. That's it's

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it's the most empowering and the most
enriching thing and the most rewarding. The

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problem is you're so busy playing triage
and putting out fire after fire. You

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might have an observation schedule and then
a fight breaks out in the hallway and

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you're done. So what I propose
in this book is to figure out ways

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to create different systems around some of
the structures that get taken away when administrators

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are overburdened. So you know,
you mentioned getting into classrooms. So with

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observation or with coaching, or with
co teaching, how can the administrator move

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into a space and a teacher move
out of it, or how can people

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in the building support each other.
I talked to a really amazing principle a

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couple of years ago, and she
takes every teacher in the building who's trying

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to become the ministry, who's learning
to be a leader, and she uses

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them to do things because they're interning
or they're also in a space where they

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want to learn and do more on
the leadership side, while she goes into

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the classroom and teachers for two classes. So you just have to think a

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little bit more creatively about how people
are being allocated and how their expertise is

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being elevated. And that's really what
this book is about. Can you find

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ways to use teachers more than you're
using them, Because nine times out of

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ten, you walk into a conference
room where leaders are talking about instruction and

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there aren't teachers there. That's a
great point in one of the things that

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I was reading about the book,
I'm going to see if I can find

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it again, was that you have
nine key aspects of leadership that where you

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offer some creative solutions to some of
these challenges. I don't know that we'll

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be able to get into all nine, but what does that mean? What

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are some of those solutions that we
have up our sleeve? So what I

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did was I spent half of the
book talking about what I call micro elements

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of leadership and the other half our
macro. So if we think about the

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really age old analogy of forest for
trees, generally speaking in again I'm generalizing,

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teachers are more details oriented because they
are in classrooms where they are working

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on these very specific moves for specific
kids all day long. And so that's

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the part of the school that they
see. They see their classrooms, makes

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sense. Sometimes they see their teams, but that's usually where it stops.

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For administrators or leaders, they're looking
at a whole school picture. So it's

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more that they're looking at the whole
forest, not just the trees. So

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that's the micro to the macro.
So in the micro chapters, and you

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know, I'm looking at the headings
right now hiring for success, So how

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do you get the team that you
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prevent fires, collaborative communication, two
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these are bigger ideas, bigger picture
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pull that perspective in even when you
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because it's not so. If you're
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are the experts giving the training,
wouldn't it be possibly better to have teachers

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who work in whatever it is you're
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a lot of this training, and
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it will be more inclusive of everybody's
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than others is some of the best
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lead learning walks and get teachers out
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and it gives you kind of that
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more things happening out there than just
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guess what I'm I was thinking about
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starting to I think, grow more
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was thinking like if and I'm not
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lot less expensive for districts to have
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in ways that you know, they
they things that they know about, tool

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technology, tools that they know,
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talent that we have already on the
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does have to do with finding ways
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people are doing, because if you
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doing, you can't possibly proceed to
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of the leadership. But you know, I'll just give an example. Schools

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have asked me in the past to
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throughs. Let's go through and see
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how much language they're producing, And
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we observe and fill out a sheet, and then you know, maybe the

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staff receives a follow up training base
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go into classrooms for gathering data to
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discourse and who is elevating conversation and
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people are sitting there quietly, but
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make it work, they should be
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an instructional coach or a specialist or
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can't have as much power in presenting
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hey, I did this yesterday and
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much more power than I did this
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or in theory, this is supposed
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it's always like that with leaders.
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think a lot of them do this
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to do. So if you're having
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you're training on station rotations, maybe
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rotations, and that's fantastic. I
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have a standard deliver model that isn't
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lot, like, you know,
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hey, my admin, especially in
teacher evaluations, want us to be engaging

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and you know student center. But
yet we go to these faculty meetings and

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professional development sessions and we're just it's
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back to the episode. One of
the things that I really do enjoy doing,

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and again it kind of goes back
to my why of helping educators grow

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as instructional leaders is aiding. I
guess in that transition from teacher to school

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leader, and I guess school leader
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think you and I are school leaders, but we are not administered traders were

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coaches of sorts. But so I
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question, I do really mean administrators, people who actually are aspiring to be

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school administrators right as they come out
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is most important for them to remember? Because I think in a lot of

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ways, it would be very easy
for someone to think that your book is

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written for people who have been an
administrator for a while. Like you said,

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you know, the longer they're in
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they are from being in the classroom. What about someone who's like pretty fresh

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out of the classroom. It's the
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there for the same reason, which
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growth. Everyone the building should want
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it from different vantage points and with
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areas of expertise. So nobody in
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sometimes you get really excited to relave
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now here I am, and you
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you, somewhat warily to see what
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you can fix and how you're going
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is a service position. It's it's
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teachers to make sure that students are
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toward that student achievements. So you
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the kids and really be transparent about
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It's when we start using phrases like
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or you know. You're trying to
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a lot of talking and not a
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yourself to people or explaining who you
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listen to them more. That's probably
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expand on that a little bit?
When you say listen to them more?

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How do school leaders do that?
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when you're putting out fires all day
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as much, they might wonder when
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more and hear from teachers more.
So I've put a lot of ideas and

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strategies, some of which I glean
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book, and one really simple thing
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but it is just in terms of
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in an office, to move your
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department room some space like that where
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it often enough that people aren't like, oh, here there comes the principle.

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standing in the hallway more having more
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in your mind with people about what
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really like to see that. So
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that. I think a lot of
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mean, some principles offices, it's
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president, you're making up ointments,
and you're you know, going through assistance

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and so forth, and you can't
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open that up, it makes a
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listen to people as well. I
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schools are so much bigger that administrators
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how to put yourself back in there
and then you'll hear things, and people

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will get more comfortable the more they
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thing is, you know, and
this is again oversimplifying something that goes on

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much longer in the book, but
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agree with us. And we do
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and not a whole lot of So
when someone expresses something that a leader doesn't

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like, very often, it becomes
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saying a whole lot is talking less, and it's the same. It's the

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same strategy I recommend for teaching talk
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you were talking about sort of those
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may not be asking for a friend
when I ask you this, do you

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have I'm sure you do. Do
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but what about the ones who seem
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their hand and everything and leave very
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leaders who too that I've always wondered
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of deep more deeper, deeper seated
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I don't manage and control every aspect
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this teacher, then it's all going
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we would say, if we want
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classrooms, we also want that have
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way to do that is to really, you know, what's the priority.

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What are we trying to achieve?
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on and that are clear, and
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show them how to meet them,
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not doing what they said they could
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gone by, I understand stepping in, but the content micromanagement drives almost everybody

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out of the job because all it
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saying, back to your point on
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is everything basically, or at least
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I have a whole online course about
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culture. I guess I would say, because to your point in leadership,

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without it, you might have those
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management, you might have those settings
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it before in the description of your
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kind of tainted relationship between teacher and
administrator that is frankly, for lack of

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better term, kind of poisonous to
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to wrap up here, UM,
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and leaders be more visible, UM, try to be better at at listening

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and speaking less and try to involve
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let me ask it this way,
Let's say there is already kind of

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a culture of that distrust, and
are there are there band aids or are

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there like bandages that we could put
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that maybe can help turnaround situations where
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technical fix, which is the band, and then do the adaptive change.

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start with adaptive change because anything that
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not be okay with. So to
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what I call feedback on feedback,
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you genuinely want to know, it's
not a rid game, and then

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you respond within days and let them
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So you said you wanted this more
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you said we needed more time to
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month, as a result, we're
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not. But here's why. So
either you know, you communicate that an

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email, you can communicate that verbal, You follow up with the people who

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you need to follow up with,
and you close what I call the feedback

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hole. You actually create a system
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need. Because if you're not doing
that, and we collect so many surveys

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in education, like endless, endless
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wonderful tool, but they're not a
great tool if they wind up in somebody's

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drive somewhere and never get looked at
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usually happens. So one thing you
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feedback for things you can change,
not things are trying to pretend you can't

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but can't, and then go from
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strategy. I really like, that's
great before we do, and I wanted

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to make sure that my listeners know
how to find your publications and find you

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and reach out to you if necessary. I think this is a great conversation,

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and I really do you know.
This is kind of again like because

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I think the positions that you and
I are in and have been throughout our

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careers. But I really do think
the concept of leading like a teacher is

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really important. That's why I was
excited to talk to you tonight. I'm

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excited to read the book. I
haven't yet, but I'm I'm thinking I'm

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going to go out and get a
copy. So where can my listeners get

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their copies and where can they find
you? So the books are available everywhere

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books are sold, so you know
Amazon Prime is fantastic. But there's also

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my publisher's page. I'm published with
ww Nortin, so my books aren't there.

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I have two out which I teach
more horver lesson this one, Lead

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like a Teacher and then Writing their
Future Selves is coming out on the fall,

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and anyone can find me in two
places. My website is my first

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and last name dot com, so
that's Miriam Plotynski dot com. And the

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only social I'm really good at is
by good I mean I check it is

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Twitter, which is at mirplo mcps, so that's a good one too.

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So through my contact page on the
website or through Twitter, I will get

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back to you, I promise.
I'm very good about that. Excellent And

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for the listeners out there, you
can always check the show notes for each

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of my episodes two where I will
have links to the books and especially Lead

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Like a Teacher, so that'll be
a Leader of Learning dot com slash episode

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one sixty Leader of Learning dot Com
Slash episode one sixty will be information about

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this episode Miriam and the book books. Mariam, thank you so much for

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your time and really appreciate connecting like
this and keep up the great work.

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Like I said, I really dig
this topic of lead like a teacher,

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so thanks, thank you. I
appreciate a chance to talk about it more.

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Well that's it for this episode.
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